So this is a sad story. I married my wonderful wife back in2003 when I was on leave from my time in Iraq. I returned from mytour safely and everything seemed to be coming together nicely. Webought a house we were both working and by 2008 we had bothstarted school. We even took in 3 of my teenage cousins as fosterchildren as their mother was abusing them. But then things startedfalling apart her older family members started getting sick. Thechildren were becoming difficult and I was about to be deployedagain. Since then we both finished our respective degrees andburied numberous family members: Her aunt grandparents hercousin my mother (of which I had to pay for the entire funeral). Iam now out of the Army on a medical discharge a medical problemfrom Iraq arose several years after the fact. The kids have agedout of the system but the oldest boy is a schizophrenic and is inneed of our care until his social security case can befinished.